About Me

“Prisoner of Love,” felt mural, based on a pencil portrait drawn by Kathy Jones in her senior year of high school.

A survivor of teen dating violence, sexual assault, stalking and domestic violence, I share my personal account in the community to give others first-hand knowledge about the obstacles and decisions that victim/survivors face in finding safety for themselves and their children. Through my narrative (titled “Where Has Our Kathy Gone”), I lay bare my experiences, encouraging audience participation in a follow-up Q&A session, to promote supportive and empowering responses from community members who encounter primary and secondary victim/survivors of family violence. Additional tools help participants understand the batterer’s mindset, and the complexities of the impact of domestic abuse on the entire family. Each presentation is tailored to the purpose and interests of the participants; this is a unique opportunity to hear directly from an adult victim/survivor about decision-making processes, protective and coping efforts, and helpful responses for safety.

In addition to my personal experience, I have also advocated on behalf of survivors of domestic abuse since July 1998, including 12+ years as a liaison with local child protection offices, giving me a kaleidoscope of experiences which enhances my training knowledge. From policy writing and statistics, to training and program development, but most importantly, fighting for the rights of battered parents and their children through legal and social service advocacy, I have witnessed the power of outside-the-box advocacy to create positive outcomes for families impacted by perpetrators of family violence.

My work (particularly the “Maze of Coercive Control”) has been featured in other blogs, newsletters and publications:

DomesticShelters.org Website

NCADV Website

Colorado DHS Domestic Violence Practice Guide for Child Protection Services

JLF Counseling Services

Emily Stein, YWCA Boston, October 2015 Newsletter (article link not available)

  • My Survivor Services are free of charge.*  Most victims of domestic violence are struggling to get by on the resources they have, without having to pay for access to justice.  Even protective parents who earn a significant salary are often driven to financial hardship by the costs of legal representation and fees associated with the long-term process of protecting their children through family courts.

To arrange for training, education and consultation services, or inquire about scheduling and fees, contact Kathy Jones at 603.770.9537 or dvsur5r@yahoo.com.

*For Survivor Services requiring travel: transportation costs, room, and board must be covered by the person seeking in-person advocacy services.

Kathy Jones, Survivor and Social Justice Advocate

5 thoughts on “About Me”

  1. I am honored to have been a part of your journey, and I am blessed to have you as a friend. You are an amazing woman.

  2. I am so very happy that you have continued on this journey. Glad that I could play a small part in it but more important that I have been blessed to know you.

  3. I am truly blessed to have you on my side and by my side during this roller coaster journey… Your knowledge, experience and support are what this world needs more of.
    Thank you for all you do to support the survivors and families… 💜💜💜

  4. Kathy,

    I’ve been inspired by you, your journey, and your ability to reach others since day one.

    Thank you!!

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